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My name is Girlfriend!

Posted 2 days ago | Updated 2 days ago

Adoption process
1

Submit Application

2

Approve Application

3

Meet the Pet

4

Sign Adoption Contract

My basic info

Breed
Lhasa Apso/Bichon Frise
Color
White - with Tan, Yellow or Fawn
Age
Adult
Size
Small 25 lbs (11 kg) or less (when grown)
Weight
Sex
Female
Pet ID
18602297

My details

Alert icon Not good with kids
Checkmark in teal circle Good with dogs
Checkmark in teal circle Good with cats
Checkmark in teal circle Purebred
Checkmark in teal circle Spayed / Neutered
Checkmark in teal circle Housetrained

My story

Here's what the humans have to say about me:

You can fill out an adoption application online on our official website.

Thanks for your interest in a pet from A.R.F.! If you see a pet here, they are still available for adoption and you should apply through our adoption application on our website at  https://www.arf-il.org/adopt/application/  



Lucy, aka Girlfriend, is a 7 year old female Lhasa Apso and is a puppy mill survivor.  She has survived but the scars still remain.  She was rescued almost 3 years ago pregnant with what happily was her last litter forced upon her.  After her pups were fixed and were adopted into their forever homes, it was time for Lucy to work on herself.  She has come quite the long way but by many people’s standards, she has quite a ways to go to become the perfect family pet.  Unfortunately after 7 or so years of being caged, forcibly bred, pups taken from her before they should have been, no human kindness—no kind voice, gentle pets, cuddles, a full recovery to a point where she was the dog she was meant to be at birth is one tall order.

She has bonded with her foster mother and follows her, and the other dogs in the house, everywhere  she goes. Always from a distance but she relies on her “mom’s” presence to ground her/calm her.  She loves her house siblings and will cuddle and nap with them.  Occasionally, she will even try to initiate play with them.  This is always so heartwarming to see because we all know that she never had this opportunity when living life as a breeder at the puppy mill.

But she still has not gotten to the point where she can sufficiently trust that humans won’t hurt her to allow humans to pet her.  She will approach and sniff at human’s finger tips and then slowly back away.  She will take treats from people—if she knows the person and if the treat is good enough.  She does continue to take baby steps forward and I do feel that in time, in her own time, she will get there.  We are looking for someone to take her for what she is now even should she remain the same as she is today.  If someone had a dog that needed another dog to keep it company, she would be a perfect choice.  If you had an affectionate dog that gave you the cuddles and affection that we crave as pet owners but that dog needed companionship while you are at work, etc., please consider Lucy.  She needs a home with another dog and how much better would it be if that dog needs a companion (or emotional support dog of his/her own). The humans in the house would be on the receiving end of their first dog’s affection while that dog was on the receiving end of affection from Lucy. 

She needs a forever home of her own - apartments please.  How miraculous it would be for her to have a forever home for Christmas!  If you have it in your heart, please help her begin her final walk towards normalcy—slowly, one step at a time, no matter how long it might take.  I promise you that nothing you will ever do in your life will touch you as much as when she does finally give you her trust.

Girlfriend is micro-chipped, housetrained, potty pad trained, and up to date on all vaccinations.  

Girlfriend's adoption fee is $175.  A meeting will not be scheduled until you have an approved application, so if you're interested in adopting Girlfriend fill out an Online Application today!

Once your application has been approved, an ARF volunteer will contact you to arrange a meeting.



Visit this organization's web site to see any additional information available about this pet.



 

Thank you for considering a rescue pet from A.R.F.-Animal Rescue Foundation! We are  based in Wheaton, IL and conduct adoption events in the DuPage County area. If you are interested in adopting one of our pets, please submit an adoption application at https://www.arf-il.org/adopt/application/ 

Adoption appointments are scheduled based on the order of applications received, so submit your application early! Submitting an application does not commit you to any animal but does get you a head start with the adoption approval process. Due to a high volume of applications, we are often unable to respond to questions or schedule meetings until your application has been approved. More information about our adoption process can be found on our website here: https://www.arf-il.org/adopt/

As an all-volunteer, foster home-based organization, A.R.F. Animal Rescue Foundation does not have a facility where applicants can visit our animals. Please visit https://www.arf-il.org/events/ for a list of our upcoming adoption events. 

Thank you for choosing to adopt, not shop!



December 5, 2025, 10:10 pm
Rescue

Contact info

Pet ID
18602297
Contact
Address
PO Box 4423, Wheaton, IL 60189

Their adoption process

1.

Submit Application

Our application will ask for information about your household and vet, and previous pet experience. https://www.arf-il.org/adopt/application

2.

Approve Application

Our application checkers will review the information you submitted. This step takes approximately 5 business days.

3.

Meet the Pet

You will be invited to meet with the pet, usually at one of our Saturday adoption events: https://www.arf-il.org/events/

4.

Sign Adoption Contract

We’ll walk you through the adoption paperwork and collect the adoption fee. Then your new best friend is yours!

Additional adoption info

If you are interested in adopting one of our pet you should complete an online application at www.arf-il.org. This does not commit you to adopting, but does allow the process to begin. You're welcome to send an inquiry, but fortunately our animals move quickly so the animal may be adopted by the time you inquire.

You will be screened to ensure that:

You understand the life long responsibility of adopting and caring for a pet.

All household members consent to the decision to adopt.

Adopting a pet will not result in a violation of your lease. If you live in an apartment, we do ask that you provide us with a copy of the lease or obtain a letter of approval from your landlord.

You are 18 years or older to adopt a pet from us.

The temperament of the animal you are interested in is conducive to your lifestyle and home environment.

Agree to our adoption fees*:
Dogs: $200
Kittens: 6 months and younger $150
Cats: Older than 6 months $110
Mama cats: $95

*Unless otherwise noted in pet listing or adoption contract.

Adoption application

Go meet their pets

We conduct weekly adoption events throughout the western suburbs of Chicago. A list of our upcoming adoption events can be found here: https://www.arf-il.org/events/

If you are interested in an animal, we recommend you put in an adoption application prior to an event: https://www.arf-il.org/adopt/application/

Many of our cats and kittens may be viewed and adopted from PetSmarts in Darien and Wheaton, Illinois.You can find more information about those friendly felines here: https://www.arf-il.org/pets/cats/darien-petsmart-adoption-center/ and here: https://www.arf-il.org/pets/cats/wheaton-petsmart-adoption-center/

More about this rescue

A.R.F.-ANIMAL RESCUE FOUNDATION is a non-profit humane society established 1985. We are volunteers dedicated to finding loving homes to the homeless, abandoned, and abused animals of our community. Animals waiting for adoption are housed in foster homes. We are licensed by the state of Illinois, we receive no government funding. Private and corporate donations, as well as adoption fees, keep ARF prepared to help animals in need. As of July 1999, ARF is now a 501c3 non-profit organization in the United States.

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