Pixiebob kittens & cats in Church Point, Louisiana

Scrim is a stray I saved from cold rain in December 2024.I believe with everything in me he has REM sleep disorder.I’ve showed 3 different vets videos,they all say the same thing-they have no idea & that he would probably need further testing at LSU-& that’s just not feasible for my current situation.He will up from dead sleep,chase “something” around the room then go back to sleep across the room.Or, the same but sometimes he doesn’t sleep right after & is dazed & confused after.He’s incontinent too.He pees most in his sleep if I don’t express his bladder regularly.Will #2 in litter box most times but sometimes it’s just close to the box.Pees a very small amount in box but usually have to manually express him so he doesn’t go all over & still I’m always mopping behind him.He’s skiddish of new people, especially men.sometimes gets 10pm zoomies but not as often the older he is.Can you give this sweet boy the care & attn. he needs?Ashamed to say I cant & hate that-he’s a total love bug!