Size
(when grown) Med. 26-60 lbs (12-27 kg)
Details
Good with dogs,
Story
My name is Blackie, and I’m a 4-year-old female Labrador mix weighing around 22kg — a healthy, comfortable medium-large size. I may have a black coat that stands out, but what people notice first about me isn’t just my appearance… it’s my gentle eyes and the soft, warm energy I give off. I tend to quietly melt into people’s hearts without even trying. 💛 I’ve always been the kind of dog who prefers to live close to people. I feel happiest when I can breathe, move, and simply exist beside someone I trust. In structured kennel environments, I found it difficult because I had to spend a lot of time alone and follow strict routines without much human connection. During that time, I showed signs of loneliness — because what I wanted most was simply to be near people.
Since moving into a foster home, I’ve changed a lot. I’ve become much more stable, more relaxed, and much happier. I love being close to my caregiver, following them around the house, and resting nearby. My expression has softened, and I’ve started to show my affectionate side more and more. I truly enjoy “being together” — that’s where I feel safest and happiest. I may have experienced neglect and hardship in the past. No one knows all the details of my earlier life, but I carry quiet traces of it with me. Even so, I never gave up on people. I didn’t become cold or distant. Instead, I slowly learned that human kindness can feel warm and safe. And now, I’m learning how to love again.
I’m not looking for someone who will only feed me or take me out. I’m looking for a family — someone who will share time with me, talk to me, look into my eyes, and make everyday moments feel meaningful. I feel happiest in those small, ordinary moments. There is one important thing I still need help with: being alone. Because I love people so much, I may struggle a little when I’m left by myself for long periods. I’m not severely anxious, but I do form strong bonds, and I need gentle practice learning that being alone is safe too. If I’m introduced gradually to alone time — starting with short periods and slowly increasing — I can learn to feel more secure and confident.
What helps me most is consistency and reassurance, not pressure. I may also still be learning parts of home life — walking routines, house rules, household sounds, and daily rhythms. But I am very motivated by human connection. When I feel loved and encouraged, I naturally try to understand and adapt. At first, I may want to stay very close to you as I adjust to a new environment. Instead of forcing independence too quickly, I need patience and emotional safety while I build trust. A calm routine, regular walks, and gentle companionship will help me feel grounded.
I’m not just a dog who needs care. I’m a dog who wants to belong. Somewhere along my journey, I learned what it feels like to be loved — and now I want to hold onto that feeling forever. I want a home where I can finally relax, where I don’t have to wonder if I’ll be left behind again. I may have started my life with loneliness, but I’m hoping my future will be filled with presence, warmth, and love. I’m Blackie, and I’m waiting for the family who will let me stay close… not just for a while, but forever. 🐾
